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Those Funny Pyramid Schemes!!!


Funny…most people think online opportunities are pyramids schemes …

Sorry to tell you naysayers but, if you have a job, you are involved in a pyramid scheme..



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(You at the bottom) Hard Working Employee

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Life Moment

Good morning!
Don’t live your life on the opinions of others. What they think of you and what you should be doing does not determine your future. Don’t base your time on waiting for someone to “get with you” or “hit you up” and they never do. Don’t base your business on friendship and credit, your business and you will suffer. If you haven’t already, start working on your own dreams. Don’t spend your whole life building someone else’s. Love yourself, help as many people as you can, embrace abundance. Have a great Tuesday!


Looking in the mirror of today

Good morning!

What are you facing today? What ever it is, face it.

Embrace what is before you.

Work at building the gift God has given you. Challenges will come. That’s part of life’s stage play.

Everyone will not be in your corner. Everyone will not root for you. Everyone will not be happy for you. But find those who are and hold on to them.

Those who aren’t will fall away or stand around and watch.

Adversity and change will show you who they are. Have a fantastically blessed day!

Lady Ruth


How Can You Be Happy?

Are You Happy? What is it in your life that would make you happy?  Do you embrace inner happiness? What is it that would make your life more fulfilling? How we feel about ourselves can determine how long we live.
As you go about your daily life you will notice people who seem very pleasant in public but behind closed doors they are living in hell within themselves. What is holding you back from your happiness? Are you struggling with unhappiness, sadness, inner turmoil? These things may come from unhappy or unhealthy relationships, a job that is disliked, unfavorable circumstances, and some people just don’t know why they are unhappy.

How can you be happy?  What can you do to find the happiness that you deserve?

In this article, I am going to share with you ways that you can find happiness, and make the most out of every day.

Happiness is decided ahead of time.

When you wake up in the morning, do you get up dreading the day ahead?  If so, begin changing this habit.
Make up your mind to have a great day. Make up your mind that you are going to have a day of victory.

•    Thank God that you are alive
•    Start the day off in a grateful attitude
•    Count your blessings
•    Declare that “this is going to be a great day”

Be Grateful

Being grateful is one of the keys to living a happy life.  Instead of complaining about what you don’t have be grateful for what you do have.  Being grateful can turn around relationships, save marriages, and even save jobs.

•    Express gratitude on your job (be thankful for your job and think about the people that are unemployed , instead of complaining about to work load, be thankful for the extra work that would allow you to stay employed,
•    Don’t take your health for granted
•    Make it a point to make everyday a special day

Find something positive to be thankful for.  Don’t take life for granted. I heard a story from a young man I went to school with who was in a terrible accident in which his car caught fire.  He was trapped inside and no one was able to get him out; the rescue and paramedics had not come yet.   As people stood around this young man said that two people in white came and got him out.   Later after the rescue and paramedics team came, he asked for the two men who pulled him out of the car, no one saw these two men or who they were, but neither could anyone tell how he had gotten out of the car.  He is grateful everyday for life, as that day could have been his last day.
We need to realize life is very short. Tell your loved ones that you love them every day; give them a hug every day.

On the gloomiest day just remember that just above those clouds the sun is shining.

Be Positive

If you found out you only had a few weeks to live would you live it being unhappy, upset, holding grudges?
Our mind naturally wants to think about unhappy and negative things but you have to change your focus.  But you must stop focusing on the negative, and realize that every day is a gift from God. Look at what is right instead of what is wrong.

Decide how you are going to live. Sometime we are not grateful for something until it is or almost taken away from us.  My mom used to always say “you never miss your water until your well runs dry”.

Yes, it may be hard to stay focused or positive when things are going wrong, when we lose our jobs, when death happens. But we must work at train our mind to see the good and condition ourselves to focus on the positive.

Circumstances may change the way you feel but it doesn’t

have to change your mind. Don’t let a few clouds sour your life.  Life is full of difficulties and adversities but keep your head up. It is natural by human nature to be discouraged but the bible says “count it all joy when you fall in to various temptations “.

If you don’t feel like you have the strength to go through, ask God to give you strength and help you to keep a good attitude. When you face disappointments, your feelings will get in the way and tell you that you won’t make it but don’t believe your feelings. Talk back to those negative thoughts and replace them with positive declarations of faith by saying ” it will be a great day, God has favor in my future, My trust is in the Lord because I know He cares for me, I will not be defeated, my hope is in the Lord”

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What Do you do when you hear the whispers? (Part 1)

I never really gave too much thought that people have negative conversations about others.  It seems to be a normal practice everywhere. Politics, race, culture, relationships, religion, even possessions…the status quo.

Everybody talks about everybody. But then there are the whispers… Pst, pst, pst,pst.

…about you! What do you do?

Shannon was an employee for about two years in the company he worked for.  Everything was going pretty well. Well….until they lost most of the older people who had been there a while and hired new ones.

Shannon was outgoing much of the time. But there were times when he stayed to himself and focused on his work more than usual. Some of the newer people didn’t like the fact that he didn’t talk a lot and though he had been there awhile no one knew much about him. Most had stopped speaking to him.  But he never understood why.    

 Then it started…the whispers!  His name was used often in the silence.  When he walked in the door at the start of his shift, things would get strangely quiet. Then he heard his name! What were they saying? Why were they using his name in their conversations? 

 Shannon decided that he wasn’t going to let it concern him. A few days later one of his coworkers pulled him to the side.  He was someone who didn’t condone what was going on.  He made mention that Shannon should watch his back because of what was being said about him.

Shannon wasn’t the least bit concerned. He was a man of faith. He also believed in God  and had read The Secret.  He started praying and using affirmations daily and believing more, praying for a better atmosphere. After a while things began to change at his  work. Things had began to really calm down.  His faith increased even more.

The whispers have probably continued but it is not noticeable. There are still those who dont care to acknowledge him, but because he decided to change his mind set by faith it doesn’t bother him like it did before.

When you hear the whispers, don’t allow it to effect your well being. People will talk, they will do all they can to try to make you feel bad, and be little you because you won’t conform to their standards or way of living.

Thank God for the whispers though, it actually made this young man stronger and gave him a deeper since of faith.

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My Rock Climbing Challenge – The Struggle Was Real!!!

Are there things in your life that you fear or you consider a challenge?  Are there things you have said “ I wish I could do that?”  Well, I did another thing that I had wanted to do that I considered  scary and crazy!

Rock climbing!

My daughter actually went and I looked at the photos and thought oh wow I really do want to do that but it looked dangerous and scary! I decided to go anyway. When I walked into the building and got signed up, I watched this video about how to harness yourself and be safe and so forth.

As soon as I looked into the area where the high walls and boulders were, I thought “OMG”  Because I don’t care for heights. I prayed and quickly overcame those thoughts and made the decision that there was no turning back.  I got harnessed up and started on my first rock.  It was very challenging!  But God was with me!

This me falling off the top!! I actually ending up on my back!

This me falling off the top!! I actually ended up on my back!

The first time half way up, I fell off…yep  all the way to the ground hanging by the rope because I had not grasp the idea of how to come down safely.

I persistently went up several more times and each time I got higher. (I finally grasp how to come down off the rocks without falling to the ground!)

rock climbing 2

Ok I’m at it again!

Ultimately, I enjoyed the challenge. I learned a lot from this experience.  Rock climbing is not just a physical challenge but it is mentally challenging. One of the lessons I learned is reaching my goal in getting to the top of the rocks is all about mindset and eliminating fear.  I realize that if I was going to climb those rocks I had to make up my mind to eliminate fear and start climbing.  I had to think about the end result.  Another lesson learned is I’ve got to get in better physical shape (ha ha )  I realized that I really need to work out more and build both upper and lower body strength.  A third thing I learned is sometimes you have to change your strategy.  As I was trying to get higher up I realized that I kept stepping on the same rocks and going in the same direction and not being able to get any further than a certain point on the boulder. But when I change my direction and pattern in which I was climbing I seemed to rock climbing 4get higher up.  I also learned that anytime you are set out towards a goal you may fail a few times but if you keep going you will reach your destination. Be persistent.

In business, we must approach it in the same manner, with  mindset shift, physical fitness, strategy adjustments, and persistency.  If you are marketing one way and it’s not working, try another way.  In life we need to not give up so easily because lets face it, challenges are going to be there no matter where you go or what you do; But how you face your challenges will determine how you overcome it.

So  4 lessons to be learned from rock climbing are :

  1. Mindset – Eliminating fear
  2. Physical fitness is important
  3. Sometimes you need to change your strategy
  4. Failure will happen but persistence is key

Hope you enjoyed this post.  Please like, share, and comment below.  Feel free to  share your challenging experience.



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Are You Drinking Enough Water?

Are you drinking enough water?

Are you drinking enough water on a daily basis? Most of us are not.  It is important to know and understand just how valuable drinking water is to the body.   Nearly every living creature needs water: humans, plants, animals, insects…but I’m going to focus on the human for now.

It is said that the human brain consist of between 75 and 80 percent water. In order for our brain to function properly it needs proper hydration. When you are not getting enough water your brain tends to lose it’s efficiency.water

Some people don’t realize when they are dehydrated. But if you seem forgetful a lot and things seem fuzzy at time, you may need to ask your self how much water have you drank because when you are not getting enough water it can effect short and long term memory.

If you work out, you need even more water then normal.  Working out causes the body to sweat and therefore you lose fluids that need to be replaced as soon as possible.

My experience with not drinking enough came all too close to me having to go get checked out for something I didn’t realize had anything to do with drinking water.  I while back my right wrist had swollen as if I had sprang it or something, but I hadn’t.  I thought it over and over and I could not remember lifting anything or doing anything that would have caused my wrist to swell.

The next day, I went to get a massage as he began,  he asked a series of questions to make sure that he would give me the right massage treatment.  I told him about my wrist, he touched and immediately got on my case and asked me when the last time I had drank water was.  I looked at him and told him it had been about a days because I had been so busy.  He then explained to me that it was not healthy to go without water at any point, and that lack of water can do more than cause swelling.  Since then water is my best friend.

Below are 8 Reasons to drink water:

  1. it helps the body maintain it’s proper fluids and keep the brain functioning properly.
  2. It helps with weight loss
  3. It helps keeps your muscles energized.
  4. It helps your skin to clear up
  5. Helps the bowels stay open
  6. Helps keep your kidneys working properly
  7. helps with mental clarity
  8. It’s also known to help with aching joints

So make sure you are getting enough water every day.  How much you need depends on your individual body and activities you participate in.

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The Battlefield of The Mind

Life gets crazy. The mind battles for yes or nos, do or don’ts, think or don’t think.  Each day can be a struggle if you allow it.  There are times when what you need to do for the moment battles with what you want to do.  Some of us have jobs that we dread going to day after day for one reason or another , we want to just want to walk away, sometimes we can be in situations where we are being treated unfairly and unjust but at the same time we realize it has to be dealt with for the moment. But the question is what are we doing about the battle to change it’s course?  I know that question can be a challenging one to answer, but i have learned that in order for change to take place, in order to get to where we want to go, to be who we want to be …we have to do what we have never done, we have to become who we haven’t been.  Don’t allow intimidation or fear to rule your life Don’t allow fear or intimidation to drive your vehicle.  Kick them out.  MAKE A CHANGE TODAY!  if necessary find a mentor.  Listen to positive personal development tracks.  Lets get this new life started!!!  Have a great and marvelous day!!!  YOU WERE BORN TO WIN!!!!!!


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You Are A Winner!

Good Morning World! It is a beautiful day. No matter what goes on in your life today, give God thanks because in the end you win. Look forward to all things good. Believe in yourself Allow God to help you chase away fear. Sometimes Our biggest enemy and challenge is over coming fear. Fear of losing, fear of failure, fear of the unknown. But take inventory and be thankful for bravery be thankful because you are an overcomer YOU ARE A WINNER!  May your day be blessed beyond your understanding! Now look in the mirror and hug yourself. #LGDR #Godgotthis #faithwalker #faithtalker #selfhugs

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How To Control Spam Comments on Your Blogs

How to Control Comments on Your Blogs

Blogging is one of the best ways to get your self notice and to get your information out to the world.  However, many bloggers experience a lot of spamming in their comments section.   People tend to fill your comments with their own links and ads.

The sole purpose for these spammers is to get your readers to buy their products.  Many of them even appear to be real bloggers.  To sum it up, they use your blog platform for advertisement and getting all of the profits.stop_spam

A lot of these spammers put bad links on your site that link to porn, malware, and other malicious sites that can compromise your computer.

There are several ways to control this depending on the type of blog you are using.

I will begin by showing you how to control blog comments in your blog platform.


With WP you have the option of using a spam controller called “AKISMET”.  This service is a Plugin and  helps you keep   unwanted comments from being left  on your blog by automatically zapping spammers.

Whenever  a new comment, trackback, or pingback is added to your site it’s submitted to  Akismet web service that monitors millions of blogs and  runs it’s detection on the  comments  and returns a accept or reject result. So you don’t have to spend extra time sorting through and deleting spam comments from your post.

How to install

Log in to your WP blog.

Look down the left side of your dashboard and go to “Plugins” and select it.

There will be a box on the right side and next to it it says “ search for plugins” . this is where you will type in Akismet. Once it comes up you will select “Install”  upon installation you will select the Akismet plugin and choose “Activate”. Once activated you can edit it’s settings to your liking.

You can also use the “Fun Capcha” plugin so that when people comment they will have to type in the letters they are given.  This ensures that the poster is human and not a spam bot.


You can also control comments on Blogger.

First, log in to your blogger account.

If you have several blogs, select the blog you want to control. Go down the left side and select “

settings” , then “Post and Comments” then under “Comments” adjust your settings.

Don’t allow your blogs to be taken over by spam.  Don’t allow someone else to use your platform to make money for themselves.


Make it a great day!


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